Saturday, November 27, 2010

WIll i ever Be able to trust a Guy again?

Almost every girl i know has had their partner cheat on them at one point in there life including myself. One thing i know is that when u really love a person and are truly good to them and they cheat on you THAT SHIT HURTS... I know for me it did. I did everything right and not to toot my own horn BUT IM NOT AN UGLY GIRL... but at the end of the day i learned it dont matter how u look or how good of a chick you are, a dude is gonna do what he wants to do. My relationship ended with my daughters dad because he passed away and GOD BLESS HIS SOUL i loved him but i had my fair share of getting cheated on. I used to always evaluate myself like WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME... Until i realized its not me its HIM.... ONe day i asked him WHY DO U CHEAT ON ME and his response was i cant help it IM A MAN... SO my ? now is THIS IS WHAT MEN DO?????? my 24 years of living i have not met a single guy that was faithful... IM not saying that every guy is like that but i have yet to find that guy. Im scared to be in relationship again because i dont think that i can trust anybody. Especially from everything i have been through and from guys that try to talk to me and i know they have girlfriends. I know this is bad to think like that but I always look at the bad in a guy before i spot the good...... I know many girls can relate to this blog so i would love for some of you to comment this... thanks ladies
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4 comments:

  1. SiraNovember 28, 2010 at 11:49 AM

    I so Feel You tiff see it like this , A nigga Need to earn trust point blank an given your circumstance he should understand if not he can keep it moving! an follow my blog ;)

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  2. AnonymousNovember 28, 2010 at 7:06 PM

    There's many great men in the world, maybe even right around the corner from you. What the past has given you can't reflect on your future. You are what you eat and breathe and to breathe the positive is to live the positive. Take it day by day. The man if your dreams will come by eventually just believe the positive, you'd be surprised what it will do.

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  3. AnonymousDecember 7, 2010 at 10:49 AM

    I feel the same way. Every man I met has cheated. i do feel sometimes it is just "a nigga's nature". They like variety and feeling in charge. I used to hope that one day a man will get tired of it and just stop all together. I dont think I will ever trust again. Even though they say when your meant to trust again you will.

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  4. UnknownApril 4, 2011 at 5:57 AM

    So sorry for yr loss Tiff.. Remain strong sweetems..God bless

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